1. Don’t sleep with a woman on the first day of seeing her naked body. Create an emergency and stop.
2. Don’t sleep in a woman’s house, whether it is your first night with her or the second or the last. Sleeping in her house is losing your power and control.
3. Use a condom on the first sex attempt. Use a condom every day you have sex until the day you decide to marry her. This is a MUST. Don’t compromise on this.
4. The first sex should be during the daytime. This allows you to understand her sexual health and nature.
5. Talk vulgar deliberately. If she responds with vulgarity. End the relationship.
6. No sex messages on WhatsApp or text. No nudes. Your inbox should always be as clean as a whistle.
7. Have a HIV test together as early as possible in the relationship. Remember, this is not a ticket for raw sex. Some tests can turn out negative because of HIV treatment. This is called a false negative.
8. Find out if she is on any medication. Don’t be a fool. Ask. Research.
9. If there is malodorous discharge on the condom, reprimand her. If there are traces of blood on the condom sheath, reprimand her. Don’t be in a relationship with a woman who does not take care of her vag!nal health.
10. Know her menstrual cycle. This will save you from being a slave of the state.
11. Take care of your penis. This is your manhood. Don’t sleep with anything in a skirt.
Silas Kwagh-hange
